Building Bridges through “Sistering”

What is "Sistering and why is it so important right now?

First of all, let’s explore a term that might be new to some but holds great importance in the building and construction industry: sistering. No, I’m not talking about sibling bonds or family ties here (although those are important too!). Instead, I'll be delving into how “sistering” plays a crucial role in strengthening relationship structures and ensuring their longevity. So buckle up, mamas, as we uncover the secrets behind this powerful construction technique!

Definition of “Sistering”

At its core, “sistering” is an architectural term that refers to the process of reinforcing or supporting existing structural elements in a building. It involves attaching additional pieces of lumber or steel beams alongside damaged or weakened ones to restore their strength and stability. Blah, blah, blah… Essentially, it's like giving your structure a helping hand when it needs it most.

This technique is commonly used when dealing with sagging floors, cracked joists, or weakened rafters.

Please note, I am NOT a construction worker OR an architect, so that is where my understanding of the original word means. What I am is a Mother’s Empowerment Coach and Circle Facilitator. And it is from that place that I will continue to tell you what “sistering” is.

The concept of “sisterhood” is often associated with the bond between biological sisters, but it goes far beyond that. So, for me, “SisterING” like “motherING” turns a noun into a verb and refers the way women can support one another (much like a beam might support another beam) rooted in empathy, understanding, and solidarity. In recent years, there has been a growing movement to apply this concept not just within families (or architecture!), but also in other relationships such as friendships.

As we explore ways to build and maintain strong relationships with those around us, let's look at how the principles of sisterhood and sistering can be adapted and applied.

1. Communication: One of the key elements of “sistering” is open and honest communication. In building any relationship (or house), it is essential to have clear and effective communication. This means being able to express your thoughts and feelings without fear or judgment. It also involves actively listening to what others are saying and striving for mutual understanding. This is something I teach inside of my membership.

2. Empathy: A vital aspect of “sistering” is empathy - the ability to understand and share someone else's feelings. When we empathize with others in our relationships, we are better equipped to respond compassionately instead of reacting defensively or dismissively. By putting ourselves in their shoes, we can build stronger bonds based on mutual respect and understanding.

3. Support: Sisters lift each other up through thick and thin; they celebrate successes together and provide comfort during challenging times. In relationships outside of family ties, offering support may look different but is no less crucial. It could mean being a shoulder to cry on or an actual, physical offering of support- like making someone dinner when they have been sick for a while.

If “sistering” is something you would like to experience and practice, you can do so at the Mother’s Empowerment Sisterhood.