You are the Queen of your own life
Lately, with the world feeling as turbulent as it is, I’ve found myself reflecting deeply on the concept of power—especially the power we, as women, hold within us. With political shifts and societal pressures, it can feel like our rights and autonomy are being chipped away. And when that sense of sovereignty feels threatened, it doesn’t just impact us on a grand scale; it ripples through our daily interactions, affecting how we show up with our families, our friends, and even with ourselves.
For many of us, this constant push-and-pull of power takes a toll on our nervous systems. I remember a time not long ago when I was barely hanging on, my sense of peace was so fragile. My nervous system was completely frayed; even the smallest disturbances felt unbearable. I reached a breaking point where I was pushing people away to protect myself, hoping it would create a sense of safety. But in doing so, I found myself feeling isolated and even more unsafe. It was a lonely place to be.
In that moment, I realized that I had lost touch with something essential inside myself—something I now refer to as my “inner Queen.” The Queen, for me, isn’t about ruling over others or putting up walls; it’s about reclaiming my calm, collected center and owning my response to the world around me.
Rediscovering the Queen’s Speech—and Our Own
Reflecting on what it means to claim our own sovereignty, I often think of the “Queen’s Speech,” a ceremonial address in the UK where the Queen shares her vision for the nation. There’s a lesson in that tradition, one we can apply to our own lives: to regularly check in with ourselves, to honor our intentions, and to declare our own vision for the life we’re building. We each have the power to speak and act with purpose, no matter what the world throws our way. If you’re curious to learn more about the history of the Queen’s Speech and its symbolic role, here’s a resource for deeper exploration.
Honoring the Inner Queen in Everyday Life
So how do we embrace this inner Queen in the daily bustle of motherhood? For me, it’s about staying rooted and remembering that I am in control of how I respond to external influences. When the world feels chaotic, I reach into my tool belt—whether it’s a deep breath, a grounding mantra, or simply the courage to ask for support. And sometimes, the greatest strength lies in reaching out to those who know us best.
This is where sisterhood comes in. In circle, we can let down our guard and show up as our full, imperfect selves. It’s a safe space to be messy, to be held, and to remember that we don’t have to have it all together. That, to me, is real strength—knowing that we’re enough exactly as we are and that we’re not alone.
A Subtle Invitation
If you’re feeling the pull to reclaim your own power and would love a space where you can practice stepping into this energy with other women, consider joining our next circle gathering. Together, we honor the queen within each of us. It’s a place to share, support, and be supported. You might just find yourself reconnecting with a part of you that’s been waiting to be seen.
In sisterhood, we grow stronger. Together, we can navigate these challenging times and help each other rise.
