The Sistering · Your Year
One month at a time, all year long.
Rhythm first. Every month carries a pillar, a practice, and the live Wednesday rhythm. Here is the full year at a glance, or turn the wheel below for the details.
The Becoming BRIDGE
Six Pillars, One Year
The pillars are the curriculum of your year, colored to match their months on the wheel below. Each one is lived through weeks of practice in community.
Belonging
Belonging is built, one brave step at a time. Honoring the gap, releasing the fantasy friend, and building the sisterhood you long for.
Resources
Reclaiming your TEAM: time, energy, attention, and money. A resourced woman can hold a big vision.
Identity
Becoming the woman your vision requires. A portrait of your future self, lived through your space, your body, your desire, your pace, and your flow.
Direction
Turning your vision into strategy: your 3-Year Target, a SWOT, your critical issues, your core strategies, and your plan.
Guides
Who and what can help. Your plan becomes your map, walked with mentors, companions, and wisdom sources.
Empowered Mindset, Toolset, Skillset & Peopleset
Your four sets: Mind Set, People Set, Skill Set, and Tool Set. What you need to experience your target and love the journey.
Rest & Retreat Calendar
3 Rest Weeks + 2 Retreats, Every Year
Three weeks a year, the whole club goes dark together. No calls, no new content. A sustainable pace is part of the teaching, so rest is built into the architecture instead of borrowed from it. And twice a year, we gather in person in Santa Barbara.
Alchemy of Becoming
What it holds: Our spring retreat. In-person creative and embodied practice as the year opens.
Release and Resonate
What it holds: Our autumn retreat. In-person release work as the year turns toward harvest.
Summer Pause
What it holds: A full week of rest at the year's brightest turn.
What happens: Nothing. That is the point.
Autumn Pause
What it holds: A week to let the season change in you, too.
What happens: Nothing. That is the point.
Winter Pause
What it holds: Deep rest before the next turn of the wheel.
What happens: Nothing. That is the point.
Integration Week
What it holds: When a month has a fifth Wednesday, we do not meet. That week is yours to rest, catch up, or let the last few weeks land.
The Wednesday Rhythm
Four Gatherings, Every Month
While you move through your own year, the whole circle gathers live every Wednesday at 10am PT. Each month rotates through four kinds of time together.
Teaching
We go deep into one thing together, tied to the pillar you are living in.
Circle
Sacred space to set the mask down, speak honestly, and be truly witnessed.
Co-working
You work on your vision alongside sisters, instead of alone in a room.
Mentor Conversation
A woman further down the path tells the circle what she knows.
Woven Through
Three Threads, All Year
Some things aren't tied to a month on the wheel. They run underneath the whole year.
Dream Weaver Call
Sistering Partner
The Library Behind You
The Woman You Are Becoming
By Month Twelve
A year in, you can feel the difference in your body before your mind catches up. Less bracing. More ease. And a vision that is finally moving.
Heard in Circle
What years of this work sound like
This is what years of this work look like. It rarely announces itself. Then one day a sister names it out loud, and you realize how far you have walked.
Your Year Is Waiting for You to Begin It
"Set down what you've been holding alone, my sweet sister."
The Sistering holds 44 women at a time, and your 12 months begin whenever you do. If this wheel feels like the year you have been waiting for, come walk it with us.
Step Into The Sistering